How a child grows up to be depends a lot on the education he or she has received. The school and the teachers are definitely an essential factor which traces the trajectory of a child’s mental abilities but the real education begins at home. Family and parents are essential in shaping the future of a child. Whether the kid will grow up to become one who is apt at whatever he or she does or whether the kid will be good with managerial skills depends completely on his mental makeup which largely determined by the upbringing at home. Whatever goes on in a proper household is determined by the kid’s parents.
How do the parents influence a child?
A child grows up seeing and trying to imitate what activities go on about the house hence it is known for certain that parents have a considerable influence over the children. Sometimes it so happens that parents pressurize their children to concentrate solely on academics, due to which the child grows up to be someone very academically sound but unaware of what goes on beyond the books. In short, the child grows up to be someone alienated from society and not with many friends. Total ignorance from the parents’ part can also prove to be dangerous, since the child may become someone who will not be able to come to terms with himself after a certain point of time in life. What is necessary is a perfect balance. A little push of encouragement, whether it may be academics or hobbies is all that the child needs. Not through coercion but through patience and understanding is how a parent will help the child to succeed academically and will prove to be beneficial for the overall education of the child.
The ways through which a parent can help the child
It is of vital importance that the atmosphere is such at home so that it promotes learning. Only the parents can ensure that. It is not necessary that the parent has to regularly sit with the child while he or she is doing home work but they need to make sure that the child develops a habit of doing his or her own home work regularly. A sense of discipline should be instilled from the very beginning. Parents can aid the child in dividing time for subjects which in turn will give him a lot of free time during which he can pursue his hobbies. A child should never be forced. Parents should have a friendly relationship with their children so that when the child faces any kind of problem (like, adjusting in a new school or the transitional phase from middle school to high school), he or she can come to their parents and discuss the problems. The general knowledge of the child should be strong and the parents should see that he or she develops a taste for knowledge apart from books. Recreation like sports should be encouraged since these are also an essential part of education.
Parents always have a strong hold on their children and hence in the formatting years of the child they can aid them with their overall education.